Tuesday, July 11, 2017

The waiting game

Ever since being a mum, I've been waiting a lot. This 'wait' is not the 'just be patient and be busy with other things while you wait'. No this 'wait' is more similar to the times when you're stranded somewhere and have nothing you could do but to really WAIT. Like right now... I'm typing this while I'm in the car just waiting for Hayley to take her nap. Oh but I'm being busy with blogging so that's not so bad 😅 Other times I've to wait for her to wake up, wait for her to fall asleep, wait for her sleep through one more cycle, wait for her to...

Saturday, July 8, 2017

Midnight ponders

I'm generally a night person. So my brain goes on hyper mode at night. But when my body's prime time and brain's prime time do not sync, it feels a bit weird... now my brain is thinking about the strangest things and my body is just... bleh... Just so I could get it out of my system and go to sleep, here's a list of things I'm pondering about while in bed: 1. Who came up with the term "shower"? Not the "shower" as in to clean oneself; but the "shower" as in to celebrate a person before a big occasion happens to that person, i.e. baby shower and...

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

#MyDatuk

The eulogy I did not get to share in person. One of my earliest memories of Datuk, and arguably one of my earliest memory in general, would have to be laying in Datuk’s arms of heavy cigarette smell, and playing with his dark, rough hands and fingers before falling asleep. As you may see in this photo, Datuk was bottle feeding a baby. That baby was me, and having him in my life from the very beginning and knowing that he’s no longer around...

Friday, January 30, 2015

Goodnight Popo

I must admit that I never liked Popo when I was a kid. She's the opposite of what Datuk is: gentle, outwardly caring and forgiving. But somehow I've always had a thought at the back of my head that one day I'll appreciate her. True enough, now I'm ever so grateful to have a grandmother like her.For as long as I could remember, I lived with Datuk and Popo on weekdays, and mom and dad would come in the evenings for dinner and take me back on weekends....

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

A few of my favourite things

Instead of listing all possible 1st world problems, I’d like to look to the positive and list some 1st world advantages/good situations. If there come a time when the dog bites, the bee stings, when I’m feeling sad, and I have to sing about my favourite things, I don’t think doorbells and sleighbells and schnitzel with noodles will cut it. So I thought of making my own version that does not rhyme but may help with not feeling so bad – here...